Hi, I really like your blog, and I’ve really enjoyed following you the past few months and I hate to be “THAT person”, but I feel like it’s necessary. Like I said, I like you, but of you have an issue with so many people, can you please just state the specific issues going on so people can deal with them and move on? It’s just getting a little uncomfortable, but I don’t want to unfollow you.

chris–daae:

Hey there

I gave this a lot of thought before replying.

I am sorry that my rants upset you (and rightfully so). Thank you for bringing this to my attention, I admit I sometimes forget that people read what I post.

You are right that I should solve my issues in a mature and rational way instead of vagueposting, but I have reasons why I can’t. I am not trying to justify my behavior, only to explain that I can’t make promises.

I will try to post less of this, and if I do I will keep using my tags “personal” or “dickscourse”, depending on what it is about. I can also use something less vague to ease automatic tag blocking.

I am sorry this is all I can do. If this keep bothering you and you feel better unfollowing me, I will understand and hold no grudges. You have the right to a comfortable blogging experience.

Friendly reminder that it’s your blog and honestly, if you want to post personal stuff literally all the time, that’s at your discretion. 

People who care about you won’t mind your rants, and lot of times, getting to talk about it at all, anywhere, is super therapeutic. 

Point is, keep posting your rants. When you’re ready to deal with stuff, go ahead, but until then don’t feel like you have to manage your content for other people. It’s your blog.