murdercityboulevard:
catsfurever:
can we just start a movement where we go to male politicians events and we ask them sexist questions like “if you are elected who will take care of the kids” and “what designer are you wearing tonight” “do you think that your stunted and constipated male emotions will affect your decision making”
that last one tho
God, this is so much absolute bullshit. I’ll admit, I have a conflict of interest because my partner works for a male politician, but the generalization here is entirely gross.
Conservative, anti-feminist male politicians are a problem, without a doubt. However, most local female conservative representatives are also a huge problem and perpetuate sexist bullshit just as much. We can’t sit around and pretend it’s only men trying to hurt women/non cis folks and agender folks when cis women have also participated in antiquated, out of date behavior in public policy. (see: Texas House female Republican reps on basically every possibly helpful bill for women’s equal rights)
This “Us vs Them” ideology also hurts us when we apply the same judgments to both feminist, (usually) liberal male politicians and their opposites. Surprisingly, a lot of male politicians do fight for equal rights and they need the recognition. I’ve seen a male politician brought to tears reading testimonials from young, frightened female immigrants who had been taken advantage of by gov’t agencies and law enforcement. He wasn’t able to hold the tears back while debating on their behalf (and all other immigrants in Texas) on the Texas House floor (see: Gene Wu, bill SB4. AJ+ has part of it.)
Reps and Senators get a lot of unnecessary shit for the things they work hard to do. They’re the law proposers and makers. You want to sit in your local govt’s meetings and/or House and Senate gallery to put the pressure on someone? Please, do it. You want to show up to their public events (full of their supporters, btw) and harass them to satisfy personal vendettas against broader society? You’ll be no more effective than an arrow hitting a solid stone wall.
Obviously, politicians get in legal trouble too sometimes and that’s a definite exception, harass those assholes. However, if you’re showing up at an event trying to represent your movement as spiteful, rude, or aggressive, you will not win. You will continue to perpetuate a belief that equal rights supporters are “rabid” and that we don’t deserve to be heard because we seem irrational.
We need to have what they don’t: Wisdom, patience, and courage. Speak out, but make sure that what you’re doing is effective. Don’t over-generalize and make enemies of friends.